Navigating Counseling Challenges with Humility and God’s Word

In the realm of counseling, where empathy and understanding are paramount, counselors often face a unique dilemma: ministering to experiences they haven’t lived.

Paula Higuchi, in her poignant reflection, shares her journey of grappling with this reality. Despite not having walked the paths of marriage or parenthood, she offers invaluable insights on how to effectively counsel without firsthand experience.

1. Embrace Humility:

Rather than being defensive, counselors should appreciate the honesty of counselees and acknowledge their own limitations. Grounding counseling in God’s Word transcends personal experience.

2. Learn from Others:

While experience is beneficial, counselors can glean wisdom from the stories and struggles of others. By listening attentively, they gain insight into common temptations and the sufficiency of God’s Word.

3. Point to Jesus:

Counselors must resist the temptation to claim complete understanding. Instead, they redirect counselees to Jesus, the ultimate empathizer, and source of grace and refuge.

4. Submit to God’s Word:

Ultimately, counselors must prioritize God’s Word over personal experiences. By aligning with Scripture, they find freedom and clarity in navigating counseling challenges.

For a deeper exploration of Paula Higuchi’s insights and practical advice, read the full article here.